- Listen — Let your students know you are available to listen to their concerns and talk about the event. Listen attentively and pay attention to what students say.
- Protect — Help students feel protected by continuing to listen to their concerns. Talk to them about what is being done in the school and community to keep them safe.
- Connect — Reach out to your students regularly. Communciate with other people involved in your students’ lives, such as parents, grandparents, or other teachers.
- Model — Be mindful of your verbal and non-verbal cues. Commit to your own self-care. Acknowledge the difficulty of the situation.
- Teach — Help your students reach and achieve small goals and applaud these achievements. Remind students that time will help.
Lost at School by Dr. Ross Greene is the first book I had ever read about children with significant behavioral challenges and trauma. Greene coined the phrase, “Kids do well if they can”, which has truly become the mantra of my current school! Greene has written many other books, all worth reading, but I have found this one is the most explicitly related to us as special education teachers.
As a special educator working in a residential treatment center, all of my students have experienced extreme situations of trauma. Personally, I have found that the best things I can do are to give space, validate feelings, problem solve, and listen more than I talk. These resources have helped me grow in my ability to support the unique social emotional and behavioral needs of my students that need me most. How do you connect and support your students who have experienced trauma?
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